When I saw my old friend Matt the other day, one of the things that came up was the Jewish chicas. Both of us went to the same small high school in the same tiny Massachusetts city where we knew, like, zero Jewish people. (My favourite English teacher was Jewish, but none of our classmates).
Since moving to New York, though, of course that has changed. I would say about half the girls I’ve dated have been Jewish, including S. (And it seems like that 70% of the blogs I read are by Jewish folks). Matt says he has a “strange physical attraction” for Jewish girls that he can’t quite explain, and sometimes his friends tease him about having a “thing” for them.
I would not say that I have a “thing” for Jewish girls, however. I guess if all other things were equal, I would prefer to date a girl who would celebrate Christmas with me. But in the grand scheme of things, that is not at all important … probably like No. 946 or so on the list of things I want in a girlfriend.
And I’ve found often, all other things aren’t equal. It seems like this city is teeming with smart, attractive, kind, sweet, successful, sexually liberated and yet amazingly still single Jewish girls. Girls who care about the world, not just their small corner of it, and who seem just a teensy bit exotic to me.
With all that going on, it’s easy to not worry about cultural things still I don’t quite understand, like the whole calling-your-mom-multiple-times-a-day thing. (Sorry Mom … but gosh, when I was a teenager I couldn’t wait to be independent of the parentals…)
The real problem with dating the Jewish women is that sometimes they seem to care more about the whole Jew/non-Jew thing a lot more than I do. One of my guy friends told me, discussing this topic with him, that every time he hears a Jewish girl talking about how she wants to date Jewish guys it “wounds” him. A couple years ago, I briefly dated this randy young lass who was quite willing to fool around with me, but was very clear she planned to accede to her parents wishes that she marry a Jewish guy. Ouch! (That’s okay though, it probably wouldn’t have worked on my end either: she was a smoker).
I can certainly understand why someone for whom religion is important just wanting to date within their religion … but often these are girls don’t go to synagogue and really aren’t religious. So I don’t quite understand it. Bex explained that even “Cream cheese & Lox” Jews are concerned about the survival of their people, etc.
I guess from my perspective — I’m an atheist mutt and very much an individualist; can’t really imagine a group being that important to me that I’m willing to alter who I date. The whole concept of ethnic pride just really isn’t my thing at all, it kinda turns me off in fact. I’m more of a John Lennon type of guy.
But to each their own. Thankfully, for my sake, there are a lot of Jewish girls who don’t really care about this. I certainly never got the feeling S. wanted me to be Jewish, or that her parents did.
Sigh… Gil, you still can’t interact with others in a civilized manner, can you? Get some help man.
ban him! ban him!
Banned.
MAKE CHRISTIANS PAY FOR ANTI-SEMITISM….
NAIL A CHRISTIAN TO THE CROSS TODAY!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAA!!!!
DEREK UR A CUNT
Okay, that didn’t work so well. But now I think he really is banned. Merry Christmas to you too Gil.
Um, Gil– you’re supposed to nail a Christian to the cross on Good Friday, not Christmas. At least know the basics before you try to make a joke that isn’t funny to anyone but you.
By the way … if anyone is doing a little google research on the email address gilesblah@yahoo.co.uk ( Gil Esblah? Giles Blah?) that would belong to Gil above. Just in case they want to know his attitude toward women or Christians or something.
This made be out of left field but I wanted to see what anyone else thinks about this. So, I am a Jewish guy in my mid-20s and I have dated both Jews and non-Jews. One of my collegues at my office, who is Catholic and Italian, always says I am so lucky because Jewish girls love giving their partners blowjobs. I joked that its because Italian mothers tell their daughter giving head will give them throat cancer. Joking aside, does anyone else think there is any truth to this sexual stereo-type?
Catholic girls like to take it up the ass.
Recently I fucked this catholic girl in Jerusalem in the toilet of the bus station. Really hard…. i got a lot of frustration out on her and was thinking of this thread as I was doing it. She kept screaming “Jesus oh fucking Jesus fuck me”… it was great.
Derek i can tell you where to find me. In NY very soon.
I thought you banned gil?
I banned one IP address, but he’s using another one. I think I’m going to file a complaint with his ISP.
UPDATE 2/26: Filed.
You can delete my messages pointing out the underlying hate of this blog if you want, it won’t do any good. I’m going to translate some of the more racist statements into Hebrew and have them at the ready.
You like Jewish girls to suck your dicks? Charming… simply charming. Just the sort of thing to endear yourselves to some Israelis…. boy are they gonna love you.
[What a fucking hypocrite. Writing Catholics “like to take it up the ass” is okay but speculating on whether Jewish girls like to give head is not? Fuck you Gil.]
You’re gonna file a compaint?? That’s hilarious! What do you think Israelis are going to think about a blog dedicated to Goyim using pseudonyms to discuss whether Jewish girls like to suck their dicks or not?
Nice remarks your posters make on here about Jewish girls having big tits and easy in bed? How racially stereotypical are you? At best!
At worst, this thread denigrates Jewish people, laughs at our traditions, has no respect for our beliefs. I HOPE that my ISP do come here and see what you’ve written maybe we will take the legal action against YOU?
This is getting interesting …..
You think? Yawn. I am not going to get baited into wasting any more time on this douche … it is clear who is the hateful one here. I thought his comments were deleted but somehow they are back and I guess I’ll let them stand. But I’ve banned his IP address.
Please Gil piss off. Go leave Christmas Day messages about nailing Christians to a cross and treating non-Jewish girls like shit somewhere else.
i think Gil is right… there are quite a few holes in derek’s argument… few ??? im left with here.
You think Gil is right about what Heeb? Nailing Christians to the cross? Leading nonJewish girls on and then treating them like shit? Leaving hate messages about someone’s culture on their holiest day? Ugh.
thanks Heeb – Hag Sameach! And Hag Sameakh l’kulam l’Pesakh. Derek hu ma mash khara
שלום לקולם! חג שמח
Gil — I need a real nice Jewish man. Can we meet? I am a Catholic girl and I want to meet you, do you, and then have you betray me — and kill me. Like y’all did to my Savior. But — haha — you won’t be entering the kingdom of God.
Ariana there are so many cock hungry Catholic ladies sniffing around the circumcised dicks of Israeli guys, that really we don’t want – much need – anymore. You’re Catholic you’re used to being sexually frustrated go take a cold shower and say a dozen hail marys to ensure “entry” to your fake kingdom.
By the way Derek you don’t ban me. From now on I visit this page and post what i like – when i like. You have a problem with that then I suggest you hang out somewhere else and let me run this from now on.
That’s ‘Hail Maries’ Gil. At least use proper capitalization.
Gil — you are so MACHO … I bet you have fantastic body odor. When are you coming to NYC? I want you so bad … Good Pesach, btw.
ariana = derek in drag. uses all the same grammah …
[Believe me, I had better things to do on my vacation in Venezuela than spend my time sparring with you Gil. Whenever someone else starts in on you, you accuse them of being me…]
grammar … not grammah. may your matzohs be leavened!
anti-semite
[This is pretty hilarious. You leave the vilest possible anti-Catholic hate messages on my blog, and then complain when someone makes a joke about Jews? What a fucking crybaby hypocrite you are Gil. -derek.]
Ariana its great to bring out the anti-semitic pig in you. You may think I’m vulgar but i’ve brought you down to my level. I’ve gotten you to write stuff about Jews that you ordinarily wouldn’t say. So I’ve won.
[Too bad you think “winning” is provoking people with outrageous hate messages rather than, say, fostering religious tolerance. What a sociopath. -derek]
As for you Derek, you’re a complete douche. You can’t even manage to keep me off this site.
[God …I go on vacation for a week and the whole site goes to hell. I have been running around in Venezuela the last few days and haven´t been near a computer, but have been keeping apprised of this little controversy through my mobile phone. (All comments on this blog get sent to me via email, which I can check via my cell phone) However it has gotten to the point where I had to seek out the business center of the hotel in Caracas where I´m staying to put a stop to this mess. Sigh… Hopefully the temporary steps will put a stop to this for now and I´ll sort things out more thoroughly when I get back to the States on Tuesday. – derek ]
Interesting thread. I have to admit though I can understand this guy Gil’s frustration. Derek, its hardly civillised or decent to racially target a certain minority’s women, no wonder you’ve had such a reaction.
Ummm… you’ve got to be kidding, right? Please tell me you are kidding.
I would really be shocked anyone would use such sexist language as “a certain minority’s women” in this day and age, as if the women belong to the minority.
I think I was at pains to explain here that I didn’t like girls because they were Jewish … it just so happens that there are a lot of hot single Jewish girls in NYC.
But what on earth would be wrong with a guy having a “thing” for Jewish girls or Asian girls or what have you? What would be wrong with a woman who wanted to date Italian men?
Opposing interracial dating strikes me as uncivilized, indecent and frankly, racist. You’re familiar with Emmett Till, right? Loving v. Virginia? The anti-miscegenation laws?
hi there, i have read the whole thread and see gil’s point. whilst i realise why derek is being overly idealistic and living in la la land, in fact gil makes some very solid points if you read the whole thread which derek basically evades entirely or miscontrues. its a shame gil is abusive at the end of the thread, but that doesn’t take anything away from the validity of his opinions…
I’d rather than be overly idealistic and live in la la land than live in Gil’s hate-filled world, David.
He seems to think we should all be sitting around, bitter and resentful ’cause of stuff that happened before we were even born.
I guess if it was up to him blacks would be resentful to whites for slavery, the French and English would still hate each other, Americans would still be anti-Japanese ’cause of Pearl Harbor, the Japanese anti-American ’cause of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, etc. etc.
Can’t we all get along?
Gil was hate-filled and idiotic from the beginning. He should take responsibility for the obnoxiousness within himself and then he will be more fit to criticize others.
Oh, sorry…I just went back, and you’re right, Gil isn’t so bad at first. The whole thing just got out of hand!!
Im a middle aged Jewish man. When I was in College and afterwards, Jewish girls were my biggest dissapointment. I was raised in a traditional Jewish home to be proud of my Heritage and marry within the faith. I was always more mature than my years. I grew up with a father who was in the military too. The Jewish girls I met were extremely immature and materialistic. They were very snobish and were among the biggest sluts I have ever met. A true dissapointment to me. Im 49 years old now. I wound up marrying a beautiful Brazilian girl when I was 30 years old. I have three children with her and Im married for 19 happy years. Religion or cultural differences were never a problem. She has always did everything to make me happy and I have reciprocated. My 3 sons are great kids with bright futures. The Jewish girls I have met in my youth and now could never live up to my Brazilian wifes standards. I say to Jewish men to stay away from those materilistic JAPS and marry a woman who truly loves you for yourself.
Sigh … I’m going to close down this thread. This will be the last comment anyone can post. Gil keeps using different computers to pose as me (and even as my mother) to write things like, “I confirm I am an anti-Semite.”
He is apparently obsessed with anti-Semitism, which is kinda funny because if he was trying to spread anti-Semitism he couldn’t do a better job of it. I mean, this is one of the comments from him I deleted:
Sigh… anyway. I hope everyone had a Merry Christmas and a Happy Hanukkah, even you Gil.
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